Stay the Same

For Isla and Victors one and two
14 June 2012, 12:28 pm
Filed under: ALL, Diary entries

As this project comes towards its final days there has been a tragedy here in my small community that is almost beyond words. Early on Sunday morning June 10th, Victor, partner of Isla who is a dear friend of mine and neighbour, and father of six week old baby Victor, the youngest child in Knoydart, died in a boat accident.
Time seems to have slowed since then. Even the boats that go past my window seem to travel more slowly.
I probably saw Victor during my morning filming sessions more than anyone else. Isla lived next door up until a few weeks ago and Victor would often leave early in the morning or take his dog for a walk and say hello as I filmed. There is even footage of me laughing at him as one morning while I was filming I watched Victor come out of the house, get in to his car, start driving, then get out again while the car was still moving to grab his dog.  I couldn’t help laugh out loud at his shennanigans. He often threatened to jet ski past behind while I was filming and now I wish he had. Maybe there will still be a trace of him and the events of this last week in my film.
It is only when something like this happens you discover how deeply you care about people. I think it is probably fair to say that most of us here in are heart-broken for Isla and her family. The sense of love here for them is overwhelming. Sadly it is not enough to hold back the tides, turn back the clocks, and take them to a moment before this all happened. For nothing will ever be quite the same again.


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Sam – just read this and I am so touched – Isla is very fortunate to have such a good friend Lots of love

Comment by Rhona

Please tell Isla how sorry I am to hear this sad news.

Comment by roseluckman

Sam, that’s lovely. Thank you for sharing.

Comment by Cath Curd

Sam. Really sorry to hear of such a tragic accident in your close community. Thoughts are with you.

Comment by Stuart

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